Existential Mobility Through Cohabitation: Students and Young Professionals Creating and Crossing (Normative) Space in Post-Uprising Tunis

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DOI:

https://doi.org/10.24847/v13i22026.657

Keywords:

cohabitation, existential (im)mobility, space, marriage

Abstract

Grounded in ethnographic fieldwork in Tunis (2015–2020), this article explores how cohabitation temporarily enhances the existential mobility of a self-proclaimed minority of Tunisian students and young professionals in post-uprising Tunis. It demonstrates how cohabitation, as long as it aligns with their romantic and professional desires and aspirations, gives these men and women the feeling of “going somewhere” in life, helping them avoid its opposite—a sense of existential immobility. Cohabitation underpins their liberal secular sense of personhood and serves as a crucial avenue for carving out (normative) space for a lifestyle that most Tunisians consider immoral and to create a “home away from home” where they feel they can be themselves, develop their relationships, and live their (love) lives more freely. This space not only increases their sense of belonging but also reinforces their belief that a better future is attainable without leaving the country. However, when their desires and aspirations shift along their life trajectories, marriage often emerges as a strategy to regain their sense of movement towards a better life and a place to feel more “at home”—either within or outside of Tunisia’s borders.

Author Biography

  • Iris Kolman, University of Amsterdam

    Iris Kolman is currently working as a project manager in the Anthropology Department of the University of Amsterdam while simultaneously finishing her PhD research in the ERC Problematizing “Muslim Marriages” : Ambiguities and Contestations research project. Through an analysis of the experience of cohabitation in Tunis, she explores how some Tunisian youth create space for themselves, both literally and figuratively, to live according to their own norms and values—in the field of love and marriage and beyond—despite the possible social and legal consequences they might face. Her work has been featured in journals and edited volumes, including Muslim Marriage and Non-Marriage: Where Religion and Politics Meet Intimate Life (Leuven University Press, 2023) and Salafism After the Arab Awakening: Contending with People’s Power, ed. by Francesco Cavatorta and Fabio Merone (Hurst, 2017).

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2026-08-04